Recently, I often see comments about "life will only get harder":
Friends will always separate at some point, and there will never be friendships as good as those in student days - friendships that fall apart.
An aging body that no longer has vitality, every day getting closer to illness and pain - an aging body.
The overall trend of economic decline, it's difficult to make money, can't afford a house or a car, and unable to cross social classes - a future with no expectations.
No matter how you look at it, the future seems lifeless and suffocating, all the happy things are slowly fading away, and all that follows is endless pain and anxiety.
Perhaps the motivation to live a good life is to adapt to all of this to the best of our abilities, gradually improve, and when our personal abilities can bear the burden of responsibility, maybe then we will achieve the life we want.